To My Son on His 11th Birthday: A Legacy of Love and Uniqueness

This Friday, my son CJ turns 11 years old. It feels surreal even writing that. Eleven. A number that somehow holds both innocence and strength, both growth and grounding. He’s growing into himself in a way that’s both beautiful and humbling to witness.

When CJ was born, I was flooded with emotion—some joy, some anxiety, all love. I didn’t have my own father in my life growing up, so stepping into fatherhood wasn’t just new territory—it felt like stepping into the unknown without a map. I didn’t know if I’d do it “right.” I wasn’t sure what I had to offer beyond love and a willingness to be present.

But every day, CJ teaches me that presence has power.

Every time I watch him interact with others—his kindness, his humor, his curiosity—I feel affirmed. Not because I’ve done everything right, but because somehow, God is allowing me to get this part of life right. Being CJ’s dad has been the greatest blessing of my life, and the most healing experience of my journey.

There is no amount of money I wouldn’t spend. No distance I wouldn’t travel. No mountain I wouldn’t climb for this boy. But more than anything, I want to give him something money can’t buy: the kind of advice I wish I had received from my own father.

So on this 11th birthday, I want to leave these words for CJ—words that I hope will live in his heart long after I’m gone:


To my son, CJ—

Do whatever it takes never to let this world make you feel less than.
Stay true to who you are, no matter the cost.
Your uniqueness is your superpower—don’t let anyone dull it to make themselves comfortable.

Never allow this world to strip you of your joy.
Laugh often. Cry when you need to. Dance when there’s no music.
Be the kind of person others can trust, and the kind of soul people hold in high regard.

Don’t take yourself too seriously, but never take this life for granted.
Every moment is sacred—make it count.

Live up to your own name, not the expectations of others.
You were not born to meet the imagination of people who don’t know your story.
You were born to fulfill purpose.
To walk with confidence in who you are.
To blaze a path that no one else could because no one else is you.

And when the noise of the world tries to drown out your voice, remember:
Your father sees you.
Your father believes in you.
And your father loves you—unapologetically, endlessly, and without condition.


CJ, being your dad is the greatest legacy I will ever carry. But my truest prayer is that you walk in a legacy of your own making. One that honors your name, your God, and your unique place in this world.

Happy Birthday, son. The world is better because you’re in it.
And I’m better because I get to be your father.

With all the love I have,
Dad

Welcome to the 249th Hunger Games, America

When Suzanne Collins first penned The Hunger Games, she offered more than entertainment; she held up a mirror to the seductive horrors of empire, inequality, and spectacle. Many treated it as dystopian fiction, safely confined to page and screen.

But as we stand here, in America 2025—under crushing economic inequality, state-sanctioned violence, sanitized history, and relentless culture wars—it becomes harder to pretend we aren’t living out our own annual Games, albeit under brighter lights and better branding.

Welcome to the 249th Hunger Games, America.
Because let’s be honest: for many, this has always been the Games.


I. The unholy trinity: capitalism, imperialism, colonialism

In Panem, the Capitol thrived off the enforced poverty and submission of the districts. It was a machine that needed hungry mouths and broken spirits to keep its gears turning.

So does America.

  • Capitalism demands ever-expanding profits, often at the direct expense of human dignity. We romanticize the billionaire while criminalizing the unhoused, insisting poverty is a moral failing instead of a predictable outcome of a rigged system.
  • Imperialism keeps this machine fed by exploiting lands and peoples abroad—through economic manipulation, military intervention, or the quiet extraction of cheap labor and natural resources.
  • Colonialism rewrites the narrative, teaching the colonized and the colonizer alike to see conquest as civilization, plunder as progress.

“When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.”
—Unknown (popularly misattributed, but profoundly true)

The intersection of these forces means America’s wealth and power are built on centuries of exploitation—first Indigenous genocide and African enslavement, then global interventions from Latin America to the Middle East.
As scholar Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor writes,

“Capitalism has always required a racial underclass to survive.”


II. Maintaining monolithic, toxic whiteness

The Capitol never truly cared about the diversity or well-being of the districts. It cared that they produced coal, grain, textiles—whatever was necessary for Capitol luxury. Likewise, America’s dominant institutions largely embrace diversity only insofar as it doesn’t challenge white norms or power structures.

  • The education system whitewashes history. Texas and Florida lead book bans and curriculum edits to keep students from grappling with slavery, segregation, or the violent theft of Native lands.<sup>2</sup>
  • Laws target immigrants and trans communities, effectively legislating people out of public life to uphold a “traditional America” that was never inclusive.
  • Policing and incarceration still disproportionately harm Black, Brown, and Indigenous communities, maintaining a racial caste system Michelle Alexander famously called “The New Jim Crow.”<sup>3</sup>

Historian Ibram X. Kendi wrote:

“Denial is the heartbeat of America. White supremacy thrives on denial.”<sup>4</sup>
It’s denial that allows the Capitol to see itself as benevolent. It’s denial that keeps America’s superiority complex alive—insisting on its moral primacy while ignoring the corpses under its foundations.


III. Rejecting truth to preserve illusions

In The Hunger Games, the Capitol carefully curated what its citizens knew. They pumped out propaganda films, staged lavish interviews, and crushed any counter-narrative.

We aren’t so different.

  • “Patriotic education” initiatives seek to erase uncomfortable truths, turning history into myth.
  • Whistleblowers and journalists who expose corruption or war crimes are demonized or prosecuted.
  • Even discussions of structural racism and privilege are reframed as personal attacks on white people, derailing collective reckoning.

As James Baldwin put it:

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.”
Yet America often refuses to face itself—because that would require dismantling the structures that sustain Capitol lifestyles.


IV. Bread, circuses, and algorithmic distraction

Panem kept its citizens docile through spectacle—the Games themselves, a televised bloodbath dressed up as national unity. We, too, are pacified by endless distraction:

  • The churn of social media keeps us hooked on shallow outrage cycles that rarely result in structural change.
  • Sports, celebrity scandals, billionaire feuds—all serve as bread and circuses while wages stagnate, rent rises, and schools crumble.
  • Meanwhile, gig workers, Amazon drivers, and fast-food cooks are today’s tributes—cheered when they “hustle,” discarded when they fall.

Sociologist Neil Postman warned decades ago:

“We are amusing ourselves to death.”
It is far easier to scroll than to strike. Far easier to retweet than to radically reimagine society.


V. Who is sacrificed so the Games continue?

The most chilling parallel between Panem and America is the sheer disposability of human lives.

  • In Panem, every district child knew they might be reaped.
  • In America, Black mothers teach their children to survive traffic stops.
  • Poor families fear that a broken arm could mean financial ruin under our health care system.
  • Migrant workers face exploitation under threat of deportation.
  • Trans youth are stripped of care and protection under waves of new legislation.

The Games continue because it’s profitable. Because it’s convenient. Because, as Malcolm X once observed,

“The white man will try to satisfy us with symbolic victories rather than economic equity and real justice.”


VI. The uncomfortable choice before us

If The Hunger Games offered any lesson, it was that these systems do not collapse under the weight of their own immorality. They must be challenged—by refusing to participate in the lies, by seeing through the spectacle, by daring to love and build outside of Capitol norms.

It means asking ourselves, right now:

  • Who is the Capitol today?
  • Who are the tributes?
  • Who profits from the Games?
  • And who dares disrupt them?

Because if we don’t, we’ll gather next year, and the next, to watch the 250th, 251st, 252nd Games—more high-tech, more sanitized, more brutal than ever.


Closing thought

So yes, welcome to the 249th Hunger Games, America.
Where capitalism, imperialism, and colonialism form the arena walls,
where whiteness remains the unspoken sponsor,
and where the rest of us must decide—
will we keep betting on the odds, or break the system that demands our blood?


A Prayer for the 249th Hunger Games, America

O God of truth and justice,
who sees beyond our illusions,
who hears the cries we silence,
and who holds tenderly the lives we discard—

We confess that we have built arenas of cruelty,
cheered on spectacles of suffering,
and turned our eyes away from the blood that waters our prosperity.

We confess that we have traded Your vision of kinship
for systems of greed, power, and false superiority—
sacrificing Your children on altars of whiteness, wealth, and empire.

Break these chains, O Lord.
Expose every lie that props up this Capitol we call home.
Shatter the idols of profit and privilege that keep us from seeing each other’s full humanity.

Teach us to weep where we have been indifferent,
to stand where we have been complicit,
to speak where we have been silent.

Ignite in us a holy impatience with injustice.
Strengthen our hands to build systems that honor Your image in every person,
and embolden our hearts to love fiercely across every line drawn by power.

May we no longer whisper “the odds be ever in your favor,”
but instead declare:
“The Kingdom come. The will be done. Justice roll down like waters.”

In the name of the Liberating Christ,
Amen.

Sources & suggested readings

  1. Keeanga-Yamahtta Taylor, From #BlackLivesMatter to Black Liberation (2016)
  2. “Florida moves to restrict AP African American Studies course,” NPR, Jan 2023.
  3. Michelle Alexander, The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness (2010)
  4. Ibram X. Kendi, How to Be an Antiracist (2019)
  5. “Trump signs executive order establishing ‘patriotic education commission,’” CNN, Sep 2020.
  6. James Baldwin, The Cross of Redemption: Uncollected Writings (2010)
  7. Neil Postman, Amusing Ourselves to Death (1985)
  8. Malcolm X, speech at Ford Auditorium, Detroit, Feb 14, 1965.

Honoring My Grandfather, Charles W. Wilson, on His 95th Birthday

Four Generations of Charles in Anime form: (L) Charles J. Ferguson–my son, (M) Charles R. Wilson–my uncle, (R) Charles W. Wilson–my grandpa, & (Standing) Me

Today, July 6th, marks a monumental day in the life of our family. We celebrate 95 incredible years of my grandfather, Charles W. Wilson—a man whose quiet strength, deep faith, and unwavering love have shaped generations.

Born in Bryn Mawr, Pennsylvania in 1930, my grandfather was the youngest of four children. Even as a boy, he displayed remarkable grit and determination, qualities that would carry him throughout his life. At Lower Merion High School, he wasn’t just a student—he was a standout multi-sport athlete, even winning a state championship in football. Those early days on the field taught him discipline, teamwork, and the value of perseverance—traits he carried into every chapter of his story.

After high school, he answered a different kind of call, one of duty and service, enlisting in the United States Air Force. For 20 years, he served our nation with honor, dedicating himself to a life bigger than his own ambitions. His military service not only strengthened his character but became a profound testimony of sacrifice, commitment, and steadfastness.

But perhaps the most enduring aspect of his life has been his faith. My grandfather served for many years as a deacon in multiple churches, standing alongside pastors, uplifting congregations, and always seeking to build up the body of Christ. He never craved the spotlight—his ministry was rooted in service, prayer, and humble devotion. I can’t count the number of pastors who were sustained by his intercession, or the countless people who experienced the love of God through his giving spirit.

Of course, long before I knew any of these stories, he was simply my grandpa. He was the man who took me camping, who showed me how to build a fire, who taught me to marvel at the stars. Those trips into nature were more than adventures—they were lessons in wonder, patience, and appreciating God’s creation.

When I felt the pull toward ministry, it was my grandfather who gave me some of the most profound counsel I’ve ever received. He told me plainly:

“The most effective thing you can do to prepare for the preaching ministry is to face the crucible of teaching Sunday School.”
He was right. There is something about teaching that sharpens your understanding, deepens your compassion, and roots you in the Word in ways that the pulpit alone never could. That wisdom has guided me throughout my journey.

My grandfather also taught me resilience, not through grand speeches, but by living it. I have watched him face physical challenges, weather heartbreak, and navigate seasons of difficulty with a grace that can only come from knowing God for real. Even now, at 95, he is one of the most giving, praying people I know. His life has been a tapestry woven with acts of kindness, steadfast prayers, and deep, abiding faith.

He has always prayed for our family. His prayers have covered my life in ways I may never fully grasp. I would not have finished school without his encouragement and support. I would not be standing in my calling today if it weren’t for his sacrifices. I am not the man I am without the example he set.

This year also marks another remarkable testament to his life: he was married to my grandmother, Cleona W. Wilson, for an astounding 72 years. Together, they built a legacy of love, partnership, and faithfulness that continues to ripple through our family. Their story is one of quiet, enduring devotion—proof that true love is not found in grand gestures alone, but in the everyday choice to stand together through every season.

So today, we don’t just celebrate a birthday. We honor a life—a life that has touched so many, shaped so much, and pointed all of us closer to Christ.

Grandpa, I thank God for your laughter, your stories, your tears. I thank Him for every lesson you taught me by simply living out your faith day by day. Your prayers still uphold me. Your sacrifices still pave the way for me. Your love still anchors me.

Happy 95th birthday, Grandpa. May you feel the deep gratitude and boundless love of all of us who are so blessed to call you ours. I love you more than words can say.