“Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap.” – Galatians 6:7
I am a 44-year-old man living in a world I never thought would exist.
You see, I was raised in the Mount Olivet Baptist Church under the preaching of the late, great Dr. Charles E. Booth. Every Sunday, he gathered the children for “moments with the youth.” He would look us in the eye and ask one question:
“Who are you?”
And our response thundered back:
“We are God’s Children; We are beautiful African American children.”
My entire childhood was inundated with that simple truth — that I was created with pride, with beauty, with God-given uniqueness. I never questioned my importance in this world as a Black boy.
Yet the world has done everything in its power to reduce my existence to talking points and social currency.
The Crooked Family of Empire
This past week has brought things to a head. The murder of children and the peddling of bigotry remind us that evil is no respecter of persons. And it unmasks, in real time, a nation that has sold a false bill of goods for 250 years.
This nation has been built by a crooked family named colonialism and imperialism. That family tree has done everything in its power to maintain the status quo while fooling the shallow and manipulating the philosophically weak. Every time America begins to function like the democracy it claims to be, this family strikes back. And if the movement cannot be stopped, this family will even crucify one of its own to maintain its position.
Caught in the crossfire, most people don’t realize how they are being played. But make no mistake: the crooked family tree is showing its weakness.
As Malcolm X said after the assassination of President Kennedy:
“Being an old farm boy myself, chickens coming home to roost never did make me sad; they’ve always made me glad.”
The truth is simple: what you sow, you will reap. The chickens always come home to roost.
Whiteness: The Offspring of Empire
Philosophers remind us that whiteness is not a color but a construct. Born in the age of exploration, whiteness grew into adolescence through colonial conquest and matured into adulthood under imperialism. It became the global standard for humanity — a false identity tied to domination, conquest, and control.
James Baldwin warned:
“As long as you think you’re white, there’s no hope for you.”
Whiteness distorts truth, breeds ignorance, and baptizes violence in the language of virtue. It is the cousin of empire and the child of colonialism, justifying itself as “civilization” while demanding silence from the oppressed.
As Charles Mills argued in The Racial Contract, whiteness is not only privilege but cultivated ignorance — a refusal to know the truth of oppression. Whiteness does not merely order skin; it orders knowledge, perception, and belonging.
Cheap Grace and the American Lie
Dietrich Bonhoeffer, confronting the evils of Nazi Germany, warned of cheap grace:
“Cheap grace is the preaching of forgiveness without requiring repentance, baptism without church discipline, Communion without confession, absolution without personal confession. Cheap grace is grace without discipleship, grace without the cross, grace without Jesus Christ, living and incarnate.”
America has perfected its own version: racial cheap grace.
We see it every time a Black individual is paraded as proof of progress while systems of injustice remain untouched. We see it when diversity is celebrated symbolically but structural inequity is left intact. Cheap grace is the applause of exceptional achievement masking the cries of the marginalized.
King’s Warning About Complicity
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. knew this better than most. In his Letter from Birmingham Jail he confessed:
“I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro’s great stumbling-block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen’s Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted to ‘order’ than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice.”
King also wrote:
“He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate it. He who accepts evil without protesting against it is really cooperating with it.”
And Audre Lorde, the poet-prophet, echoed this warning:
“My silences had not protected me. Your silences will not protect you.”
Silence is not neutral. It is complicity. It is cooperation with the crooked family tree.
Burdened Exceptionalism Syndrome
When I think about being a Black man in this season, I recognize a malaise among those who share my melanin. It is the constant challenge between being honest with ourselves or settling into what the world demands — to become the “magical negro.”
I have come to call this Burdened Exceptionalism Syndrome (BES), also known as Magical Negro Syndrome.
Definition: A sociocultural pattern affecting “exceptional” Black individuals in dominant-culture spaces where their value is contingent on serving others’ redemption or success, leading to self-suppression, chronic over-responsibility, spiritual/emotional exhaustion, and impaired agency.
Context of exposure: regular participation in settings where one is celebrated as “exceptional” while implicitly or explicitly tasked with fixing, soothing, or redeeming others or their institution.
This is the cheap grace of race relations. This is the crooked family tree disguising itself as progress. This is the false hope of whiteness — to elevate the few while erasing the many.
The Symptom Clusters of BES
BES is not abstract. It leaves fingerprints on the body and the soul:
- Emotional: muted anger, guilt when resting, numbness; cycles of resentment → shame.
- Cognitive: internalized utility (“I’m valuable when I fix things”), hypervigilance to white comfort, self-doubt about deserving care.
- Behavioral: chronic over-functioning, boundary collapse, role-triage (pastor/therapist/mediator) without reciprocity.
- Relational: tokenization, isolation through praise (“different from the rest”), people-pleasing to retain access.
- Spiritual/Meaning: sanctifying self-erasure; pressure to be the “forgiving/wisdom figure”; moral injury when truth-telling is punished; lament avoided.
- Somatic: fatigue, sleep disturbance, stress markers (headache, GI issues).
This is the weight of exceptionalism. It is the cost of cheap grace. It is the crooked family tree asking us once more to prop up its rotten branches.
Refusing the Burden
Ladies and gentlemen, I can no longer accept this burden. I cannot keep watching my people contort themselves into symbols of redemption for a nation unwilling to repent.
Angela Davis was right:
“In a racist society it is not enough to be non-racist, we must be anti-racist.”
Malcolm was right: the chickens will come home to roost.
King was right: silence will never protect us.
Lorde was right: our silences will not save us.
Bonhoeffer was right: cheap grace cannot save a corrupted church or a corrupted nation.
And I am saying now: BES is not our inheritance.
Our inheritance is freedom, dignity, and the fullness of life promised by Jesus:
“I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” – John 10:10
The only way forward is truth. Not performance. Not exception. Not silence. But truth.
A Lament
O God of justice,
we stand beneath a crooked family tree,
its roots watered with blood,
its branches heavy with lies,
its fruit poisoned by empire.
We lament the cheap grace that baptizes oppression,
the whiteness that devours truth,
the complicity that silences prophets,
the burden that breaks the backs of the exceptional.
We name the exhaustion of our people,
the muted anger,
the sleepless nights,
the bodies carrying stress as inheritance.
We confess the sins not of the enslaved,
but of the enslavers who were paid in silver,
the moderates who prized order above justice,
the churches that sanctified erasure.
We cry with the psalmist: “How long, O Lord?”
How long will this nation reap what it has sown?
How long will chickens circle overhead before the roost is burned down?
How long will our Blackness be both spectacle and scapegoat?
Let the silence of the saints be judged.
Let the empire’s cheap grace be exposed.
Let the mask of exceptionalism be torn from our faces.
We lament.
We do not soothe.
We do not excuse.
We do not forgive what has not repented.
We weep,
and in our weeping,
we testify:
this burden is not ours to carry.